And it was you

It's really interesting what people stress in their identity. There's certain aspects of a person's identity that they're quick to share with others. You can tell this by what people talk about and how they talk about it.

That's why I think it's really interesting what people choose to talk about. They can talk about billions of different topics, but they choose to talk about that exact topic. The fact that they talk about it means that they place value in that topic