The first person you talk to about an event has a huge amount of sway in how you see that event; even more so if you still don't know how to feel about the event.
Let's say you just came back from a date and you're telling your best friend about it. You're still not sure if it was a successful date. You're still unsure if you're willing to go on another one with that person. Your best friend hears you tell the story of how things went down and offers feedback(both verbal and nonverbal). This feedback is huge because even though they weren't there to witness the date, your best friend is helping shape your view on the event and more importantly, whether or not you wanna pursue things with your date.
That's fucking HUUUUGE. It's crazy how someone who wasn't even there can have such an influence on how things progress
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