I'm a Pushover

I'm a big believer in free will. I want people to do things on their own free will. There are times where I'll want something, but it'll be dependent on someone else. That someone might make a decision, on their on free will, that doesn't get me what I want, and obviously I'll be disappointed because I didn't get what I wanted. But I'm always happy when that person makes the decisions because they wanted to, not just because they were feeling pressure to make a certain call.

When someone will make the decision that I want them to on their own free will, it's much more rewarding then having to be convincing or conniving or contriving