Thursday, December 20, 2012

Breathe Like My Last Breath



This motherfucker just oozes class. And a sense of the moment. A sense of the occassion

Wednesday, December 19, 2012

Lie awake, reconsider

I hate it when I feel like I'm communicating myself perfectly but the person I'm talking to doesn't really understand what I was getting at. I'm gonna telepathize shit to you now so nothing gets lost in translation from mind to mouth

Tuesday, December 18, 2012

I Was The One Trying To Get Her To See That

Girls take so much time to get ready. Personally, it's really hard for me to sympathize with that. I don't really have any frame of reference when it comes to that. I guess I might take some time out to think of talking points or things I want to bring up with someone before I hang out with them, but that's much different from taking an hour or so to put makeup on and do my hair.

I think I'm starting to understand why some girls are pushy when it comes to being on time. I'd probably be pissed too if I spent an hour getting ready, only to wait another 2 or 3 hours

Call That Motherfucker Socrates

You're one person when you're with your boyfriend. But you're a different person when you're with that new friend you made. You've had experiences with your boyfriend that have conditioned you to be one way. As is the case with any good relationship, you've communicated and conceded a few things in order to please your significant other.  He doesn't like the way you talk about how you hate hip hop, so you suppress that around him. But with your new friend, you're free to act however you want; you have a clean slate.

Sometimes it's necessary to move on from the person you were with that person and start over. You can go back to being some of those things that your boyfriend wouldn't allow you to

Monday, December 17, 2012

BADMINTON



MERRY CHRISTMAS YALL JALL CRAWL!?

Imma Take It From Here

I've heard people talk about how to be interested in someone, you have to have common interests.

I've also heard that opposites attract.

In my opinion, both arguments have a point. If you have common interests, you two have something to talk about and fall back on. And if you're more opposite than alike, then I think there are more opportunities for learning from each other(like a gamer teaching their boo-thang how to play video games).

What I think really matters isn't so much WHAT you two are interested in; it matters more how you two approach what the other is interested in.

Jane and Matt can have similar interests. Maybe they both like rock climbing. That's great and that gives them something to talk about, do together, pursue a future in. That's awesome and that'll probably work out for them. Their relationship probably won't falter because they have a disconnect in their interests.

Chris and Michelle, however, might be more opposite than alike. Chris is into video games and chess. Michelle is into girly television shows and running. That doesn't make for a doomed relationship though. Chris can find a way to get Michelle into video games and Michelle can get Chris to appreciate her favorite television shows. They can expand their taste in culture through and with each other.

What I'm trying to get at is that I don't buy the idea that you need to have common interests in order to work as a relationship. Moreover, I think what you're interested isn't really all that important at all. It's more important that you genuinely care about the other person and are willing to put in work towards your relationship. Coming into the relationship, you might have found "Call of Duty" incredibly boring, but if you're willing to put in some effort, you can find a middle ground. Instead of playing first person shooters, you could get into side scrollers. On that same note, you might not really appreciate "Keeping Up With The Kardashians," but you could meet in the middle and get into "Pretty Little Liars."

I'm still not entirely sure how I feel about this subject. I just know that I'm not entirely sold on the idea that I have to have the same hobbies as a girl that I'm into


Thursday, December 13, 2012

Do you like drugs?

Its crazy just how much is in the minor details. The minutiae possesses probably the most interesting components, but all we ever hear are the major events. And its interesting how we often forget the minutiae long before we forget the major events.

Crazy. Can you imagine reading the plot for a movie and thinking that you really understood the movie? Fuck that, you didn't get to see the cinematography, the emotion in the actor's face, the way the actors delivered their lines.

Its all in the (seemingly) minor details!

Saturday, December 8, 2012

Hold My Hand

There's a difference between being a classy individual and being a prude. Ya feel me!?

Whatsup yall

Its crazy to me how, in a major city like london or paris, you can find a pocket of time and space where you're completely alone

Friday, December 7, 2012

Remember Me

One day I'm going to retire and live somewhere in Switzerland

Wednesday, December 5, 2012

But I Don't Wanna Die Alone

People have such interesting stories to tell. YOU mothafuckas just don't shut up long enough for them to tell it

Tuesday, December 4, 2012

Let's Go To The Floor

http://sodelushious.com/

John Legend and his wifey look like they live such a good life

Coaxial Cable

My idea of romantic is us being lost together in Marseille

Monday, December 3, 2012

Let My Love Adorn You

Why does it matter that I'm late to find out that Radiohead is awesome? Why do you care that I didn't get the new Frank Ocean album the second it was released?

Why can't you just be happy that I think that their music is awesome? Why can't you be glad that we both share an appreciation for the same music? Instead, you're looking for negatives from what should be an awesome situation

Monday, November 26, 2012

What Does Love Mean To You?


If you want a good laugh, ask someone what their definition of "being in love" is.

Everyone's definition is different but it's cool comparing and contrasting each person's definition. Some people will give you some generic, cutesy answer straight out of a rom-com; fuck those. The best responses are genuine, honest, and leave both people feeling exposed.



Sunday, November 25, 2012

Infinity

You know what bothers me? When Christine is telling a story and doing a great job at it. And then Joseph, having heard half of Christine's story, thinks of his own story that he wants to tell. Maybe it's a relevant experience, maybe he just wants to show that he can relate to her, whatever. It doesn't matter. He interrupts, stops her story, and interjects with his own story.

What bothers me is that Christine might have waited WEEKS to tell that story. She could have been amped as fuck about having the right people to tell the story to; people that she could confide every detail to. But she didn't get to give every detail, because her story was derailed by an eager beaver

Four Faces, Four Corners

I live for certain moments in my life.

Like being in a very specific setting, listening to a specific song, and just sitting there and soaking in the enormity of it all.

Or being in a specific setting and having a specific kind of conversation with someone.

Or building up a relationship with someone for a long time in order to have just that one moment with them.

I would(and have) paid high prices just to have these moments. Fuck the bull, these moments are precious to moi

Hey You



¡Todo! ¡Aquí es todo de mi vida!

Thursday, November 22, 2012

These Fuckers Make It So Hard To Be Friendly



All it takes to go from the friend zone to the end zone is some honesty and some courage(probably liquid courage, lol)!

Wednesday, November 14, 2012

Saturday, November 10, 2012

When I Said Goodbye

My fiancé and I aren't getting married until we come up with the answer to the following question: "If we had a baby and found out pre-birth that it would live with a serious disability all of his/her life, would we keep it?

Thursday, November 1, 2012

I Am Leaving

You've GOT to have friends who aren't always on your side. Having yes-men around you is counter productive and doesn't lead to any kind of progression!

Tuesday, October 30, 2012

I Don't Wanna Go

It's important to be honest to yourself, especially when self-assessing.

I think one of the biggest challenges as far as being in a relationship with me is trying to break through and get me to talk about things that are near and dear to me.

Being very much an independent person, I don't really need to talk to or vent to people very often. I have no problem thinking things through in my head and being completely content with being alone. Where others might need someone to bounce ideas off of or simply just to vent to, I often opt to deal with things without any kind of outside feedback.

Thursday, October 25, 2012

Just You And Me And A Plane And A Pilot

I've never been attracted to someone because of their negativity. I know some couples who say "we hate the same things; we're a perfect match!"

I can't imagine negativity ever being attractive to me at all

Tuesday, October 23, 2012

Sing about me

I've recently found myself struggling with conversations. I'll be in a group of people. We'll be talking about something and I'm patiently listening, enjoying the conversation. The other people in the convo are chatting it up, laughing, having a good time. Then someone will make a point that I don't agree with.

This is where I find myself struggling. I could speak up on why I don't agree, but normally my argument is based on logic and reasoning that isn't necessarily equivalent to the level of logic and reasoning that had been going on during the conversation. While they're appealing more to their emotions, I'm basing my argument almost solely on logic and reason. While my argument might not be nearly as sexy or funny as theirs, I like to think that my argument is much more thought out.

I could be "that guy," speak up and (probably) kill the jovial mood, or I could keep quiet and keep the conversation going with no interruption.

Sometimes, however, I feel like if i don't speak up, I'm complying and confirming that their viewpoint is okay. If I stay quiet when someone brings up a blatantly racist joke(hilarity of the joke notwithstanding), does that mean that I'm not doing anything to stop that kind of racism? Does that mean that I'm okay with it?

I don't wanna be the guy who has to kill the mood, but I also don't want to be the guy who doesn't stand up for what he believes in

Tuesday, October 9, 2012

Learn About Aiming



Something about the innocence of a child and whatnot. Yeah

Tuesday, September 18, 2012

Cavana


lianne la havas by 3030fm

If I were a coffee shop going man(and I'm not), this is the kinda music I'd want played as I sit and enjoy my morning brew

Monday, September 17, 2012

Thursday, September 6, 2012

The Sex Sex



I uh, you and uh, yeah...

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