Thursday, December 20, 2012
Breathe Like My Last Breath
This motherfucker just oozes class. And a sense of the moment. A sense of the occassion
Wednesday, December 19, 2012
Lie awake, reconsider
I hate it when I feel like I'm communicating myself perfectly but the person I'm talking to doesn't really understand what I was getting at. I'm gonna telepathize shit to you now so nothing gets lost in translation from mind to mouth
Tuesday, December 18, 2012
I Was The One Trying To Get Her To See That
I think I'm starting to understand why some girls are pushy when it comes to being on time. I'd probably be pissed too if I spent an hour getting ready, only to wait another 2 or 3 hours
Call That Motherfucker Socrates
Sometimes it's necessary to move on from the person you were with that person and start over. You can go back to being some of those things that your boyfriend wouldn't allow you to
Monday, December 17, 2012
Imma Take It From Here
I've also heard that opposites attract.
In my opinion, both arguments have a point. If you have common interests, you two have something to talk about and fall back on. And if you're more opposite than alike, then I think there are more opportunities for learning from each other(like a gamer teaching their boo-thang how to play video games).
What I think really matters isn't so much WHAT you two are interested in; it matters more how you two approach what the other is interested in.
Jane and Matt can have similar interests. Maybe they both like rock climbing. That's great and that gives them something to talk about, do together, pursue a future in. That's awesome and that'll probably work out for them. Their relationship probably won't falter because they have a disconnect in their interests.
Chris and Michelle, however, might be more opposite than alike. Chris is into video games and chess. Michelle is into girly television shows and running. That doesn't make for a doomed relationship though. Chris can find a way to get Michelle into video games and Michelle can get Chris to appreciate her favorite television shows. They can expand their taste in culture through and with each other.
What I'm trying to get at is that I don't buy the idea that you need to have common interests in order to work as a relationship. Moreover, I think what you're interested isn't really all that important at all. It's more important that you genuinely care about the other person and are willing to put in work towards your relationship. Coming into the relationship, you might have found "Call of Duty" incredibly boring, but if you're willing to put in some effort, you can find a middle ground. Instead of playing first person shooters, you could get into side scrollers. On that same note, you might not really appreciate "Keeping Up With The Kardashians," but you could meet in the middle and get into "Pretty Little Liars."
I'm still not entirely sure how I feel about this subject. I just know that I'm not entirely sold on the idea that I have to have the same hobbies as a girl that I'm into
Thursday, December 13, 2012
Do you like drugs?
Its crazy just how much is in the minor details. The minutiae possesses probably the most interesting components, but all we ever hear are the major events. And its interesting how we often forget the minutiae long before we forget the major events.
Crazy. Can you imagine reading the plot for a movie and thinking that you really understood the movie? Fuck that, you didn't get to see the cinematography, the emotion in the actor's face, the way the actors delivered their lines.
Its all in the (seemingly) minor details!
Saturday, December 8, 2012
Whatsup yall
Friday, December 7, 2012
Wednesday, December 5, 2012
But I Don't Wanna Die Alone
Tuesday, December 4, 2012
Let's Go To The Floor
John Legend and his wifey look like they live such a good life
Monday, December 3, 2012
Let My Love Adorn You
Why can't you just be happy that I think that their music is awesome? Why can't you be glad that we both share an appreciation for the same music? Instead, you're looking for negatives from what should be an awesome situation
Monday, November 26, 2012
What Does Love Mean To You?
If you want a good laugh, ask someone what their definition of "being in love" is.
Everyone's definition is different but it's cool comparing and contrasting each person's definition. Some people will give you some generic, cutesy answer straight out of a rom-com; fuck those. The best responses are genuine, honest, and leave both people feeling exposed.
Sunday, November 25, 2012
Infinity
What bothers me is that Christine might have waited WEEKS to tell that story. She could have been amped as fuck about having the right people to tell the story to; people that she could confide every detail to. But she didn't get to give every detail, because her story was derailed by an eager beaver
Four Faces, Four Corners
Like being in a very specific setting, listening to a specific song, and just sitting there and soaking in the enormity of it all.
Or being in a specific setting and having a specific kind of conversation with someone.
Or building up a relationship with someone for a long time in order to have just that one moment with them.
I would(and have) paid high prices just to have these moments. Fuck the bull, these moments are precious to moi
Thursday, November 22, 2012
These Fuckers Make It So Hard To Be Friendly
All it takes to go from the friend zone to the end zone is some honesty and some courage(probably liquid courage, lol)!
Wednesday, November 14, 2012
Saturday, November 10, 2012
When I Said Goodbye
Thursday, November 1, 2012
I Am Leaving
Tuesday, October 30, 2012
I Don't Wanna Go
I think one of the biggest challenges as far as being in a relationship with me is trying to break through and get me to talk about things that are near and dear to me.
Being very much an independent person, I don't really need to talk to or vent to people very often. I have no problem thinking things through in my head and being completely content with being alone. Where others might need someone to bounce ideas off of or simply just to vent to, I often opt to deal with things without any kind of outside feedback.
Thursday, October 25, 2012
Just You And Me And A Plane And A Pilot
I can't imagine negativity ever being attractive to me at all
Tuesday, October 23, 2012
Sing about me
This is where I find myself struggling. I could speak up on why I don't agree, but normally my argument is based on logic and reasoning that isn't necessarily equivalent to the level of logic and reasoning that had been going on during the conversation. While they're appealing more to their emotions, I'm basing my argument almost solely on logic and reason. While my argument might not be nearly as sexy or funny as theirs, I like to think that my argument is much more thought out.
I could be "that guy," speak up and (probably) kill the jovial mood, or I could keep quiet and keep the conversation going with no interruption.
Sometimes, however, I feel like if i don't speak up, I'm complying and confirming that their viewpoint is okay. If I stay quiet when someone brings up a blatantly racist joke(hilarity of the joke notwithstanding), does that mean that I'm not doing anything to stop that kind of racism? Does that mean that I'm okay with it?
I don't wanna be the guy who has to kill the mood, but I also don't want to be the guy who doesn't stand up for what he believes in
Tuesday, October 9, 2012
Tuesday, September 18, 2012
Cavana
lianne la havas by 3030fm
If I were a coffee shop going man(and I'm not), this is the kinda music I'd want played as I sit and enjoy my morning brew