Don't Hold The Wall

I hate it when people complain.

But that's me complaining about complainers. What does that make me? Lol

Salute

Every second you spend bitching, whining, and complaining is a second you could spend working towards a solution

Calling Me Yelling

I want to go all hipster hater on this, talmbout how it's such a blatant ripoff of Mayer Hawthorne.

On the other hand, JT does do this shit pretty fuckin well. And I fuckin LOVE this music video

Still I see no changes

It's crazy how much we let those closest to us get away with. Our friends and family have (what we see as) the craziest beliefs. Be it politics, religion, or social practices, the people we hold closest to us can absolutely be, unbeknownst to us, the kind of people we despise

Tweetdeck

Cooking brunch on a Saturday morning with Passion Pit blaring in the background is goddamn amazing

Wake Me On The Way

I'm going to recreate this with you. Yes you

Keep on walking now

I'm gonna marry anna kendrick one day

That's Just How I Feel

un tiempo mas, the best gift you could give someone is the time and effort to sit them down and listen to them.

MAKE THAT LANESWITCHDOE #sandwich

A Lot Of Great Response

Jamie XX, Stacey Barthe, and Alicia Keys. Jesucristo

Norwayyyyy

The first person you talk to about an event has a huge amount of sway in how you see that event; even more so if you still don't know how to feel about the event.

Let's say you just came back from a date and you're telling your best friend about it. You're still not sure if it was a successful date. You're still unsure if you're willing to go on another one with that person. Your best friend hears you tell the story of how things went down and offers feedback(both verbal and nonverbal). This feedback is huge because even though they weren't there to witness the date, your best friend is helping shape your view on the event and more importantly, whether or not you wanna pursue things with your date.

That's fucking HUUUUGE. It's crazy how someone who wasn't even there can have such an influence on how things progress

Jeraflu

Politeness and empathy is the key to all human interactions.

Don't use "being honest" as an excuse to act like an ass. Being polite and honest are not mutually exclusive. If you say things like "at least I'm not bullshitting you" or "I just say what I feel" to excuse bad behavior, you are doing it wrong.

Being "nice" to people and having manners isn't being fake. It's being an adult.

Also, women are people too. This seems obvious, but I think a lot of young men don't seem to realize the way they are behaving reflects that this isn't something they are aware of. They aren't a mysterious race of creatures that are all conspiring. They are individuals, shaped by predisposition and life experiences just like you. Treat them like they are just like you. Not like an obstacle to be overcome.

Confident people who operate from strength let the other person go first, give them a break, help others out, etc., in the same way that the fastest runner gives the slower guy a head start. Fearful (and/or not too bright) people fight to secure every advantage for themselves.

The Comment section at Reddit never phails!

Sex Is The Coolest Form Of Nonverbal Communication

Siemens furniture?

Ivana go to a jazz club ahora

Don't Worry About What You Aint Got

I don't deal well with cynics and pessimists. I like to think that I'm a very positive, very optimistic dude. Too much pessimism and cynicism and I get all fidgety

Fill Me In

Hey it's sixth grade Ryan!

Radio Daze

Absolutely one of my favorite songs ever. Always sounds even more awesome when I'm buzzed or drunk

Locked And Loaded

I couldn't care less about your accomplishments. I do care about your happiness, though

I Bet Your Mother Would Be Proud

It's weird how the best and most famous artists often have a weird personality trait. Like Michael Jordan is a complete asshole, Kanye West is selfish, and Quentin Tarantino just has something off about him. Maybe that's what it takes to be great; just being a little bit off on a personal level. You have to be a nut to train hard enough to win multiple titles. You have to be a dick in order to perfect your music. You have to be a little bit unsociable in order to direct a masterpiece.

I don't know if I would trade my personality for any other, but it'd be interesting to see how I would act if I were one of these artsy fartsy types with a weird personality trait.

Knock knock knock

I hate how in san diego (and most of the united states, for that matter), it's seen as weird to walk around to get places. I want to live somewhere where I can walk and take public transportation to where I need to go

And I just can't pull myself away

I think that sometimes when analyze other people's problems, we forget that they're human beings with emotions, feelings, and desires. We get into this mode where we're focusing solely on problem solving. We get too busy yelling at them to sympathize with them. They become less than human to us; more of a test study than a real human being who might be confused and unsure of what to do

They Don't Know

Being in a relationship means you inherit your significant other's fuck ups. I really don't know if I'm capable of all that right now. Being single is dope because I don't have to worry about a whole other person's wishes, desires, and intentions. I can focus solely on myself and what I want to do. I know that one day I'll find someone worth putting in all that effort for, but as of right now, I've set that bar pretty high

Breathe Like My Last Breath

This motherfucker just oozes class. And a sense of the moment. A sense of the occassion

Lie awake, reconsider

I hate it when I feel like I'm communicating myself perfectly but the person I'm talking to doesn't really understand what I was getting at. I'm gonna telepathize shit to you now so nothing gets lost in translation from mind to mouth

I Was The One Trying To Get Her To See That

Girls take so much time to get ready. Personally, it's really hard for me to sympathize with that. I don't really have any frame of reference when it comes to that. I guess I might take some time out to think of talking points or things I want to bring up with someone before I hang out with them, but that's much different from taking an hour or so to put makeup on and do my hair.

I think I'm starting to understand why some girls are pushy when it comes to being on time. I'd probably be pissed too if I spent an hour getting ready, only to wait another 2 or 3 hours

Call That Motherfucker Socrates

You're one person when you're with your boyfriend. But you're a different person when you're with that new friend you made. You've had experiences with your boyfriend that have conditioned you to be one way. As is the case with any good relationship, you've communicated and conceded a few things in order to please your significant other.  He doesn't like the way you talk about how you hate hip hop, so you suppress that around him. But with your new friend, you're free to act however you want; you have a clean slate.

Sometimes it's necessary to move on from the person you were with that person and start over. You can go back to being some of those things that your boyfriend wouldn't allow you to

BADMINTON

MERRY CHRISTMAS YALL JALL CRAWL!?

Imma Take It From Here

I've heard people talk about how to be interested in someone, you have to have common interests.

I've also heard that opposites attract.

In my opinion, both arguments have a point. If you have common interests, you two have something to talk about and fall back on. And if you're more opposite than alike, then I think there are more opportunities for learning from each other(like a gamer teaching their boo-thang how to play video games).

What I think really matters isn't so much WHAT you two are interested in; it matters more how you two approach what the other is interested in.

Jane and Matt can have similar interests. Maybe they both like rock climbing. That's great and that gives them something to talk about, do together, pursue a future in. That's awesome and that'll probably work out for them. Their relationship probably won't falter because they have a disconnect in their interests.

Chris and Michelle, however, might be more opposite than alike. Chris is into video games and chess. Michelle is into girly television shows and running. That doesn't make for a doomed relationship though. Chris can find a way to get Michelle into video games and Michelle can get Chris to appreciate her favorite television shows. They can expand their taste in culture through and with each other.

What I'm trying to get at is that I don't buy the idea that you need to have common interests in order to work as a relationship. Moreover, I think what you're interested isn't really all that important at all. It's more important that you genuinely care about the other person and are willing to put in work towards your relationship. Coming into the relationship, you might have found "Call of Duty" incredibly boring, but if you're willing to put in some effort, you can find a middle ground. Instead of playing first person shooters, you could get into side scrollers. On that same note, you might not really appreciate "Keeping Up With The Kardashians," but you could meet in the middle and get into "Pretty Little Liars."

I'm still not entirely sure how I feel about this subject. I just know that I'm not entirely sold on the idea that I have to have the same hobbies as a girl that I'm into

Do you like drugs?

Its crazy just how much is in the minor details. The minutiae possesses probably the most interesting components, but all we ever hear are the major events. And its interesting how we often forget the minutiae long before we forget the major events.

Crazy. Can you imagine reading the plot for a movie and thinking that you really understood the movie? Fuck that, you didn't get to see the cinematography, the emotion in the actor's face, the way the actors delivered their lines.

Its all in the (seemingly) minor details!

Hold My Hand

There's a difference between being a classy individual and being a prude. Ya feel me!?

Whatsup yall

Its crazy to me how, in a major city like london or paris, you can find a pocket of time and space where you're completely alone