I'm gonna marry anna kendrick one day
Monday, January 28, 2013
Sunday, January 20, 2013
That's Just How I Feel
un tiempo mas, the best gift you could give someone is the time and effort to sit them down and listen to them.
MAKE THAT LANESWITCHDOE #sandwich
MAKE THAT LANESWITCHDOE #sandwich
Saturday, January 12, 2013
Monday, January 7, 2013
Norwayyyyy
The first person you talk to about an event has a huge amount of sway in how you see that event; even more so if you still don't know how to feel about the event.
Let's say you just came back from a date and you're telling your best friend about it. You're still not sure if it was a successful date. You're still unsure if you're willing to go on another one with that person. Your best friend hears you tell the story of how things went down and offers feedback(both verbal and nonverbal). This feedback is huge because even though they weren't there to witness the date, your best friend is helping shape your view on the event and more importantly, whether or not you wanna pursue things with your date.
That's fucking HUUUUGE. It's crazy how someone who wasn't even there can have such an influence on how things progress
Let's say you just came back from a date and you're telling your best friend about it. You're still not sure if it was a successful date. You're still unsure if you're willing to go on another one with that person. Your best friend hears you tell the story of how things went down and offers feedback(both verbal and nonverbal). This feedback is huge because even though they weren't there to witness the date, your best friend is helping shape your view on the event and more importantly, whether or not you wanna pursue things with your date.
That's fucking HUUUUGE. It's crazy how someone who wasn't even there can have such an influence on how things progress
Sunday, January 6, 2013
Jeraflu
Politeness and empathy is the key to all human interactions.
Don't use "being honest" as an excuse to act like an ass. Being polite and honest are not mutually exclusive. If you say things like "at least I'm not bullshitting you" or "I just say what I feel" to excuse bad behavior, you are doing it wrong.
Being "nice" to people and having manners isn't being fake. It's being an adult.
Also, women are people too. This seems obvious, but I think a lot of young men don't seem to realize the way they are behaving reflects that this isn't something they are aware of. They aren't a mysterious race of creatures that are all conspiring. They are individuals, shaped by predisposition and life experiences just like you. Treat them like they are just like you. Not like an obstacle to be overcome.
Confident people who operate from strength let the other person go first, give them a break, help others out, etc., in the same way that the fastest runner gives the slower guy a head start. Fearful (and/or not too bright) people fight to secure every advantage for themselves.
Confident people who operate from strength let the other person go first, give them a break, help others out, etc., in the same way that the fastest runner gives the slower guy a head start. Fearful (and/or not too bright) people fight to secure every advantage for themselves.
The Comment section at Reddit never phails!
Friday, January 4, 2013
Thursday, January 3, 2013
Tuesday, January 1, 2013
Don't Worry About What You Aint Got
I don't deal well with cynics and pessimists. I like to think that I'm a very positive, very optimistic dude. Too much pessimism and cynicism and I get all fidgety
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